The Forbidden Fruit...

The road not to be taken, the room never been opened.

The Mona Lisa smile, the mystery of the grail.

The appeal of a woman, and the glory of the moon.

All that is forbidden, or that that has been put out of reach...

There’s something about doing what is absolutely forbidden. The Harry Potter’s famous Forbidden Forest was a reason for talk due this same unsaid reason. The ‘hidden’ Chamber of Secrets, the though scary, but exciting though of breaking into the Ministry of Magic, Ginny dating the ‘oh so tough to date, busy in saving the world’ Harry Potter, Ron dating ‘tough to beat’ Hermoine Granger.

Similarly, that something which is unreachable is always more desirable. Starting from the mystery that the piggy bank was when we were children, to the A rated movies.
Talking a bit closer to home...the will to “Try” booze, fag and dope is much greater than when you’ve already done those. And that’s where people use the phrase “been there done that!” to boast of their supposed achievements to those, who are beginners.

The IIT, the IIM’s, the IAS is still a dream in every household, while they become just a stepping stone the moment you crack them. Till then those who crack it are aliens, and the objects for intimidation and probably desire to some. *blush*!!

That girl next door, or that hot chick in office is what men will turn and gaze, and maybe even imagine in their fantasies, till finally one day they get to date them. Then they wish they had stayed ‘just friends’ with them, well probably because they are no more forbidden, they are what they have already attained. The mystery dissolved.

The woman outside of the marriage is always more beautiful than one’s own wife. His girlfriend is always sexier than one’s own. The grass on the field of private property is always greener! The dress on her is always more sexier.

For us women too, its commonly known that the desire for the MIB ‘Men in Black’ or for that matter, the ‘Men in Uniform’ is so great that it threatens our respective husbands and boyfriends, or atleast makes them wonder the reason for the desire. The probable excuse being- it’s the doing of the ego. Woman’s ego hurts when they become the second love of the man, the first supposedly being the love for the country or the human race. The “2 take di naukri” song explains it better than any of my above comments, it so truthfully explains the desperation of a wife for his husband in the month of monsoon, who incidentally is loving being busy with his ‘not so paying well job’. That lady, singing so seductively, is still cribbing for her husband despite being wished for by so many other. And here comes in the concept that applies to all the singles of the world, that of “The one we like doesn’t love us, and the one we don’t love is desperate to be loved by us”! Well, that’s the sad and most truest of the vicious cycle in the world of love and lust baby! The unreachable is always the most desirable.

Remember the feeling of wearing a tee saying “I make my own rules” or that jatt singing “assi jitthe bhi jawange gaddi morange, assi saare de saare rule todange”?

Speaking of The JAI of “just mohobbat” tele serial, who broke all the rules, though in innocence. Just doing all the wrong things in life made him so desirable to all the girls of his class... #justsaying.

The reason why Dabangg was such a Dabangg movie and ‘Rowdy Rathore’ seems so promising!

The love for all night parties, the air of thrill about driving faster than the limit allows, the craze in visiting India Gate at night, the air of ‘haawwww’ and the gossips about one night stands, the awesomeness in watching item songs chupke chupke.....

The list is endless, but the reason is only one, well atleast for the likes of ‘rowdy’ or ‘rebellious, stubborn” me.